Tuesday, 28 April 2009

Short School Career

After chatting to Steve via Skype last night (you know when we were going out we wrote snail mail to each other because email was barely getting started. How strange is that?!! And those phone bills on a student budget...) I tried one more day with Josh.
He really did not want to be there and even though he didn't fuss about it he did not fully engage at any time during the morning. I thought the teachers tried a bit more to get him involved but I'm not sure what they were doing was stimulating enough anyway. And it really wasn't a do or die situation. He likes being home, he is learning lots of stuff [I think sometimes, despite me]. And I like that I have the choice - at home, I wouldn't really have the same options.
So, I withdrew him, and amazingly, because it rarely happens here, the school happily agreed to giving me a refund and I was pleasantly surprised to find that meant the whole amount.
Interestingly, though, he told me that he would like Faith Academy and stay by himself. (Good job!). Funnily, he thought he would be joining Rose in her class. I had to explain that she would have moved up grades by then so we speculated who of his friends might be in that class with him.
Rose didn't get why he wasn't going anymore or why he didn't like it which pretty much sums up the differences in their personalities! I can tell that he is happier again now though and that is worth more to me than any official schooling.

2 comments:

PG said...

Sounds like a wise decision to me. More hurdles to overcome in many years to come but a good choice. well done. Love to you all Dad xxxx
Life is too short to be forced to be miserable!

Anonymous said...

Im syre you have made the right decision too, Steve and Debs .
Josh will be ready for Faith Kindergarten next year
In the meanwhile he will enjoy home and pre-school
The Lord's Special Blessings for you all at the conference
Lots of Love and Prayers Jean xxxxx :-)
Ps Ill send out Slumdog Millionaire with your Dad and Mum , Debs, as it isnt released til June 1st xxxxx :-)